Sept. 19, 2025

How to Talk to Doctors About Menopause and Hormone Health in Midlife, with Adrian Thompson, PA-C

How to Talk to Doctors About Menopause and Hormone Health in Midlife, with Adrian Thompson, PA-C

Menopause isn’t a maybe—it’s a certainty for every woman lucky enough to live long enough. Yet despite the fact that half the population will experience it, perimenopause and menopause are still some of the most confusing, frustrating, and misunderstood stages of life.

In this empowering episode, Cheryl is joined by Adrian Thompson, PA-C, founder of Vida Women’s Health, who specializes in helping midlife women navigate hormone changes with confidence. Together, we unpack the myths, the medical gaps, and the real options available—so you can walk into your doctor’s office informed, prepared, and ready to advocate for yourself.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

✔ Why so many women over 40 feel dismissed when they bring up menopause symptoms
 ✔ The truth about hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and how safe it really is
 ✔ Non-hormonal treatment options that actually work (and which ones don’t)
 ✔ How to advocate for yourself with your doctor and know when it’s time to get a second opinion

🎯 OMG Moment: Menopause is inevitable, but suffering is not.

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Before your next doctor’s visit, write down your symptoms, your questions, and your goals for treatment. Being clear on what you need makes it easier to advocate for yourself—and to know if your provider is really listening.

Why This Episode Matters
Too many midlife women walk out of their doctor’s office feeling dismissed, confused, or hopeless. This conversation will give you the knowledge, language, and confidence to finally get the answers—and the care—you deserve.

 

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00:00 - Breaking Menopause Silence

06:24 - Adrienne's Personal Menopause Journey

14:12 - Advocating for Yourself with Doctors

22:12 - Hormonal vs Non-Hormonal Options

29:55 - Breast Cancer History and HRT

40:55 - Finding Specialized Care Resources

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So here's the thing that is a little bit frustrating and confusing.

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We speak so much more now about perimenopause and menopause and women in their 50s and 40s and 60s.

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It's not something that's hidden and if you're younger maybe you don't realize.

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It used to be something that was hidden.

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Nobody ever said a word about it.

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It was secret almost.

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We speak so much more about it now, but has it become less confusing?

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Have we found easy ways to understand the issues?

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The decisions around hormones, the decisions around what to do about symptoms, how to talk to your doctor?

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I'm not so sure that we've made it any easier, so let's talk about it.

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The interesting thing about perimenopause and menopause is that if you are a woman, you will go through it.

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Maybe.

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I don't know about perimenopause, maybe you'll never.

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You'll be the lucky ones who never have any symptoms that really bother you at all.

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But menopause, yes, everyone, if you are lucky enough to have a life long enough, will go through it.

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So it seems odd, doesn't it, that it's still such a confusing issue If we have symptoms that are a problem and we feel bad or things get hard or uncomfortable.

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We're going to talk about it on this episode all the different symptoms.

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Why would it not be more straightforward to figure out what to do and why would we not be able to easily have conversations with our doctors about this?

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Now, I don't think we're going to be able to answer that.

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Why, to be honest with you in this episode?

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But I think we're going to make it a lot better.

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My guest today is Adrienne Thompson.

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She is a telemedicine practice for women in this phase and we're going to talk about not only the basics of symptoms and hormones and HRT and all the different terms that you probably need to be aware of, but also how do you talk to your doctor and what should you do if the conversation doesn't go the way you thought.

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So welcome, adrienne.

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Thank you, I'm glad to be here.

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What we're going to talk about is such a popular topic and I think it's because we feel I don't know if it's uninformed or powerless or something.

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A lot of us, I think, feel that way a lot of times.

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So you are passionate about women's health and particularly hormone health.

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Tell us how that came about for you.

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It started about almost four years ago now.

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I started night sweats, mood changes, irritability, all this constellation of symptoms that I literally thought I was going crazy.

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I didn't know what was happening.

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I'm a clinician, like I should know.

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Oh, it's this, it's that.

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Like I should know I was taken.

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I was like you know, I know I have a history of anxiety, but it's under control.

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Like I feel like it's under control but it doesn't.

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And I was very irritable and I was just sweating all over the place.

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And then finally, you know, I kind of did some research and I had enough medical suspicion that it might be some menopause type symptoms.

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So I dug into it.

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I was like this is perimenopause, oh my goodness.

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Went to my OBGYN.

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Yeah, I was given birth control pills and so, okay, fine, I tried the birth control pills.

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It wasn't helping.

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I gave it a good try.

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Well, I was told that's all you can do.

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There's, you know, you're still having cycles.

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That's all you can do.

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Gave me things like exercise and therapy and all these things that I was doing.

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So I was really upset after that visit and I just thought this is not right.

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This is not right.

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Now I come from the era of hormones are bad.

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We do not prescribe hormones.

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I graduated from PA school in 2003.

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I know that ages me, but the WHI study came out in 2002, and I bet we'll talk about that later.

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But I just thought this isn't right.

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And so I knew enough and I knew where to go to find the research.

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And I just kept digging and, digging, and digging and I found you know this world of information.

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That's incredible.

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I, you know.

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I found I was suffering.

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I found what I needed the estradiol, you know the progesterone.

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I kind of, on my own, did my research, finally found a provider that would prescribe it for me, kind of asking for what I wanted because I knew, and so I was able to get what I thought and what I knew I needed.

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But since then, talking with other women and hearing other women's stories, I just thought this is an area of medicine that needs help.

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It needs, you know, somebody to speak up for women, to give women a place.

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So I took this huge deep dive into perimenopause, menop.

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Hopefully, you know, reassure them that you're not making up these symptoms.

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These are real symptoms and you can be treated and you can feel better.

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So just me struggling with my own symptoms and getting dismissed by my OBGYN and then finally getting on the hormones and feeling like myself again, I was like I have to specialize in this.

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So, I had been in primary care about a little over 20 years before or so, and I just thought you know I'm switching from primary care.

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I'm going to take a deep dive.

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I started the virtual practice and now here we are.

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Here we are.

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You know it's interesting If you look at internet search trends, social media, it's huge right now that people are talking more about menopause and perimenopause Things that I think 20, 30, 40 years ago nobody said those words out loud at all right.

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Nobody was talking about Good, but I still feel like, from a medical perspective, things haven't changed.

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Do you think that's fair to say?

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I feel like the rest of us are talking about it, but I don't know.

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If it's changing, how we're then being treated?

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Right and it's not so, yes, menopause is having its day, and this is one of the beautiful things to come out of social media.

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I feel like there's been some leaders in this area that have been very loud and have given us some really great evidence-based information.

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I know there's a lot of bad information out there and I know there's a lot of wrong information, but I feel like we had enough evidence-based providers out there that educated women.

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And when women started listening to this, you know being validated, feeling heard, feeling seen, you know the fire spread and so the cat's out of the bag.

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The problem is is what I alluded to earlier, which is A there was a study that came out in 2002 that said hormones were bad.

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So everyone after 2002 was never taught hormone therapy, how to prescribe it.

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And then there's also that, you know, women's health just hasn't had its day.

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It hasn't had its funding and it hasn't had its research.

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It's really sad when you look back on the research that's been done on women's health, the research that's been, you know, looking into hormone health, looking into menopause, the effects of menopause it's just not there.

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It's really just not there.

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And so most medical providers that were in school, you know, after 2002, or even people that were practicing, didn't learn how to prescribe hormones, didn't learn how to identify perimenopause in people in their late 30s or early 40s.

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It's happening so much earlier now because we know the symptoms and we know how to identify them.

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So there is this, you know, a few generations of medical providers who were not taught menopause care, who were told hormones were bad and do not know how to treat perimenopause or menopausal women.

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And so unless these clinicians have gone back and studied and learned and taken a deep dive into this on their own, they don't know this information.

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Yeah, that's it's really helpful, I think, from my perspective, to at least understand that and to know why it has happened.

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It's not a conspiracy against you and me, but it's.

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Let's take that a little bit further, because I it sounds like I've had a similar path as you and in my 40s-ish I'm in my mid 50s now.

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In my 40s I was having a bleeding that was really really heavy and it was really a problem and I was anemic and all this stuff, and the only solution I was offered was to go back on the pill, which I didn't want to do, and so I didn't do it and I dealt with it and I took my iron and all of that and I switched doctors.

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By the time I switched doctors, it just so happened that I was kind of on the end of that, okay, and I haven't had any other major symptoms.

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So now that that's better and I'm kind of hanging in there, okay.

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At my most recent visit I asked my doctor you know, should we look into this?

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Because I was reading about bone health and it seems like estrogen is so important for so many things, and she said you don't have any bad symptoms, so no, we're not going to look into that, and I found that very frustrating.

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She dismissed your symptoms.

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Yes, and I tell that story mainly because I'm sure it's not just me.

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It is not just you.

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Did she offer you anything else for your symptoms?

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No, because I really at this point don't have any symptoms that are terribly annoying.

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So it was more like you're fine, those aren't particularly bad, and that's fair.

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I'm not super uncomfortable, but I want to look at the whole picture, you know, and it just felt dismissive.

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Yeah, so you know estrogen is FDA approved for the treatment of moderate to severe vasomotor symptoms.

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It is FDA approved to prevent osteopenia.

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It's FDA approved for women who go through, you know, premature ovarian suppression.

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It's FDA approved to treat vaginal genital urinary syndrome of menopause, so that vaginal dryness, irritation, urinary symptoms.

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It is not FDA approved for the prevention of dementia or cardiovascular disease or mood or metabolic health.

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These aren't FDA indications.

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So we have the information out there and if she had ever gone back and read the benefits that they saw in the WHI study of the women that took hormones versus the women that didn't, she would know that if you started on an estrogen, you have a decreased risk of type 2 diabetes because estrogen makes your insulin work better.

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If you start, you know, estrogen within the 10 years of menopause forward or backward decrease your risk for cardiovascular disease, decrease overall risk of fractures, prevents osteopenia, osteoporosis and a myriad of other things.

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That would be a conversation to have and it would be what I do, which is shared decision-making.

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And so you sitting down with your doctor.

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Here's what we know.

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This is what came out of the WHI study.

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That's a positive outcome.

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We don't know exactly.

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You know all the mechanisms and it hasn't been studied for all these things in clinical trials.

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But we do see these benefits and so it's up to me and you to make that decision of whether or not you want to go on it for preventative health for don't know what to say so can you give us some advice about how to have those conversations or how to kind of make sure that's not the case?

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Yeah, and so you know.

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Unfortunately, these clinicians don't know the research and they haven't been taught, so it's kind of not their fault and they don't want to treat you with something that causes harm.

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And so to a point you can educate them.

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But unless they're opening to hearing you and they're open to the you know information you present to them, you know they can either be on board or they cannot.

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So you know, it might be that in the end you need to find a new clinician, somebody that is willing to listen to you or that's even willing to listen to what research you have, if you can go in and advocate for yourself.

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So what I usually tell people is you know, and I will give you these handouts afterwards of how to advocate for yourself at your doctor's appointment, and I'll give you these handouts afterwards of how to advocate for yourself at your doctor's appointment, and I'll give you the handout for clinical trials and studies that show the safety and efficacy of hormones.

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Yes, and I'm going to interrupt you for a second and say, if you're listening, those will be available in Patreon.

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So yeah, keep that in mind.

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Okay, go ahead.

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And so what it is is going in and advocating for yourself.

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You know if your clinician said, oh, your symptoms aren't bad enough, you don't need hormones at this time, you could talk about this study that shows the decreased risk of cardiovascular disease for women that started it in their 50s.

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You could say, hey, look, in the WHI study, when they looked back on these women after 15, 20 years, they see that they had a decreased risk of metabolic disease, type 2 diabetes, or these women had an overall 30% decreased risk of overall mortality.

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So there's so many different things you can arm yourself with and also the studies and the information there's amazing.

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You know.

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I can also give you my list of resources of wonderful evidence-based you know podcasts, youtubes, books.

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You know even taking in a book, but really just going in with a little bit of information to arm yourself.

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If they do say, well, you know your symptoms aren't bad enough, or you know, oh, that's just stress or oh, that's just this.

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You know going in and advocating for yourself because you know the information, you've read it, you have some studies here and just kind of talking it through with your provider and you're going to have to kind of feel out how receptive your provider is to having these conversations and, honestly, these conversations unfortunately not a lot of clinicians will have them.

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They've been taught one way and so a lot aren't receptive to learning from you.

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So I would say, if you go to your provider and you try and advocate for yourself and you know what you need, you've done your research, you know finding another clinician or finding a menopause society certified provider, which I can tell you more about later.

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Yes, let's remember to talk about that.

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That's a very good point.

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That is a very good point.

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Yes, I'm going to try to remember to come back to it.

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We'll see how the brain fog is and and.

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So I think what happened to me and probably this happens to a lot of us is I had something in mind I wanted to talk about, but I didn't have enough information and I was thrown off by a response I didn't expect and I didn't know how to go any further.

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So great point.

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Another thing you could do is now do your research, find you know the evidence behind what you're thinking and go back to see that provider and say I know I saw you before and I know my symptoms don't meet the requirements, you know, from moderate to severe hot flashes or what have you.

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But I also have seen the research on.

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It can prevent dementia, it can prevent cardiovascular disease, metabolic disease.

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It saves your bones.

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Maybe your mom had a history of osteoporosis or something like that.

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There's something in your history that increases your risk for osteopenia.

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And so go back to your clinician, you know, armed with a little bit more information, so that you can have a new conversation when you know what you want to say and if they're not receptive, at that point you know.

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Yeah, well, that's a great piece of advice, because maybe someone listening might be thinking, well, okay, I've had the conversation, I can't go back, but why not?

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Of course we can, why not?

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Yeah, if you felt shut down and you didn't know what to say and you weren't armed, you know with the resources you needed, well armed.

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You know with the resources you needed, well, regroup.

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You know, find your information, find your evidence, find you know what you need and I'll provide you some information to hopefully find some of that and take it in and show your clinician and even if they aren't receptive at that point, maybe it planted a seed and maybe they'll look into it a little bit later and the next woman that comes to see them might not get the same answer.

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So maybe we're just planting little seeds as well by giving some more information to our clinicians, even if they don't act receptive.

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We're paying it forward.

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Paying it forward?

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Yes, I like that.

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Yes, I like that.

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Okay, so then I don't even know how to ask this question because it's so big.

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We'll see where it goes.

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So let's say that you have armed yourself with a bit more information and are having a discussion with a medical professional, because, of course, podcast listener, remember that we're not giving medical advice on the podcast and you're trying to make this decision.

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Do I need to start HRT, do I not?

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Am I just fine as I am?

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It's confusing even when we do have someone who's open to it and knows all the benefits.

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So do you have any advice on kind of where we start to figure that out?

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Well, kind of how I start with my patients is I listen to their symptoms.

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So what are their symptoms?

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What are they complaining of?

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How intense are they?

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And so I think there's.

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When I think of a progesterone deficiency or a low progesterone, I think more of anxiety, difficulty with sleep.

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When I think of hot flashes, night sweats, joint pains, brain fog, dry skin, dry eyes, moodiness, irritability, I think estrogen.

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When I hear people say that they're just exhausted, low libido, no sexual desire whatsoever, I'm trying to get through my workouts, I can't get through them, or I'm doing the workouts, I'm not building the muscles, I think more of testosterone.

00:21:44.001 --> 00:21:57.942
So I kind of intake their symptoms, see what they are and kind of what hormone do I think would be more appropriate to start with, and then we can talk about that and how that goes.

00:21:57.942 --> 00:22:08.939
Of course, I always give you know non hormonal options too, so you could weigh your pros and cons about non hormonal options versus hormonal options.

00:22:08.939 --> 00:22:11.022
So you can weigh those risks too.

00:22:11.431 --> 00:22:14.880
So tell me what is an example of a non hormonal option?

00:22:14.921 --> 00:22:22.671
I'm curious example of a non-hormonal option.

00:22:22.671 --> 00:22:23.071
I'm curious.

00:22:23.071 --> 00:22:27.582
So the first thing is there is a non-hormonal medication now for hot flashes and night sweats that is not an estrogen.

00:22:27.582 --> 00:22:43.056
It's called Vioza and it works on these neurons in the brain to help regulate the thermogenic system, and so it's working on the areas of the brain for hot flashes and night sweats that's not estrogen.

00:22:43.056 --> 00:22:52.596
And then also there is a very, very low dose, ssri, serotonin selective reuptake inhibitor.

00:22:52.596 --> 00:23:04.022
It's basically like Paxil if you've ever heard of Paxil but at a baby, baby dose, and it's been shown in clinical trials to help with hot flashes, night sweats, moodiness.

00:23:04.022 --> 00:23:10.019
It's nice because it's a really tiny dose and so you don't get a lot of the sexual side effects from it.

00:23:10.019 --> 00:23:16.477
You don't get a lot of those normal side effects you might get from the higher doses that we use for anxiety or depression.

00:23:17.271 --> 00:23:26.344
There's other medications like gabapentin, effexor, so there's a few other medications that have been tested.

00:23:26.344 --> 00:23:35.734
There's, you know, talking about diet and you know, nutrition activity, all those different things that you can do for those as well.

00:23:35.734 --> 00:23:59.663
You know that the menopause society outside of kind of the medications that I mentioned and hormone therapy, the only thing they support, evidence based, is cognitive behavioral therapy CBT therapy for those going through menopause for help with the menopausal symptoms, and hypnosis for menopause.

00:23:59.663 --> 00:24:08.771
So those are the two non-medication treatment modalities that they recommend, outside of the other things I mentioned.

00:24:08.771 --> 00:24:16.134
So what they don't support and don't have evidence to back up is the herbs and the supplements.

00:24:16.134 --> 00:24:27.523
There's not an herb or a supplement that's been tried and shown to result in evidence-based improvements in people's symptoms.

00:24:28.010 --> 00:24:40.515
Wow, there's a lot to unpack from that and if you're listening, there's a thunderstorm going on right outside my house, so hopefully we won't like have thunder in the background, but we'll see.

00:24:40.515 --> 00:24:42.358
So yeah.

00:24:42.419 --> 00:24:52.132
So when women come to me and if they're on a supplement or they want a supplement or an herb, you know I always just ask them how, how's it doing for you?

00:24:52.132 --> 00:24:53.134
Is that helping?

00:24:53.134 --> 00:24:56.261
You know, do you feel like what you're taking is helping you?

00:24:56.261 --> 00:24:59.269
Because I always want people, I'm not against people taking supplements.

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If you like your supplement, take your supplement.

00:25:01.538 --> 00:25:10.861
But I always ask that you go back and revisit it and make sure it's doing what you think it's going to be doing and you're not taking it just to be taking it.

00:25:10.861 --> 00:25:21.141
And then, if you want recommendations, I can always give them to you, but I don't have that evidence to support them that they're going to work and they are worth the money that you spend on them.

00:25:21.141 --> 00:25:22.103
So that's kind of.

00:25:22.150 --> 00:25:23.092
That's a great point.

00:25:23.092 --> 00:25:31.885
That's a great point, although I have to say the fact that there are medications available to the non hormonal, then I went to.

00:25:31.885 --> 00:25:33.790
Well, what about the side effects of those?

00:25:33.790 --> 00:25:34.913
So it's a whole.

00:25:35.273 --> 00:25:49.903
It's a whole thing, yep, everything's got its pros and cons, risks and benefits, and so hopefully you know you can sit down with your clinician and have that conversation about pros and cons, risks, benefits of you know all your options.

00:25:51.152 --> 00:25:51.593
Right.

00:25:51.593 --> 00:26:14.509
So when most people talk about HRT the hormonal options in particular, most people talk about HRT the hormonal options in particular, given that we have is the correct term bioidentical or non-synthetic options, they really don't have, as I understand it, that many potential downsides.

00:26:14.509 --> 00:26:15.974
Is that true?

00:26:16.349 --> 00:26:17.675
Yes, that is true.

00:26:17.675 --> 00:26:27.563
So I want people to understand that biosimilar or bioidentical just means that it's the same as what we produce.

00:26:27.563 --> 00:26:33.962
Okay, it doesn't mean it doesn't need to come from a plant or it doesn't need to come from X, y and Z.

00:26:33.962 --> 00:26:45.692
It just needs to be the same makeup as the hormones we produce, needs to be the same makeup as the hormones we produce.

00:26:45.692 --> 00:26:54.571
So the FDA approved insurance covered generic, cheap hormones that we have on the market are bioidentical or biosimilar to the hormones we produce.

00:26:55.133 --> 00:27:13.201
So the estradiol that we prescribe that's FDA approved, your insurance covers it, it's affordable is bioidentical or biosimilar to the estradiol we make, and so bioidentical it's a marketing term.

00:27:13.201 --> 00:27:39.435
It's a marketing term because of the WHI study came out in 2002 and said hormones are bad and those two hormones that they used in that study were synthetic, and so there was this opportunity for people to come into that space, for women who were miserable and wanted help no matter what, and they called them bio-identical and they are better, know so much better than these synthetic ones.

00:27:39.435 --> 00:27:47.346
Well, that's a whole debate in and of itself, but the FDA approved medications.

00:27:47.346 --> 00:27:51.636
Hormones that we use are bioidentical Estradiol.

00:27:51.636 --> 00:27:59.625
For estrogen, we use micronized progesterone, which is the same progesterone as we make and the testosterone is the same as we make.

00:27:59.625 --> 00:28:13.324
So I don't want people to think that they have to go get compounded, they have to go get expensive things, they have to get these expensive pellets that have no regulation, that are super, super dosing them.

00:28:14.191 --> 00:28:20.174
Aha, very interesting, and I'm not going to go down that path any further, but it sounds like there's there's plenty there.

00:28:20.435 --> 00:28:21.880
There's plenty to unpack there.

00:28:22.671 --> 00:28:27.444
It's good that we maybe at least mentioned it, yeah, and sort of on.

00:28:27.444 --> 00:28:31.075
You may have almost answered this, but I'm going to ask it anyway.

00:28:31.075 --> 00:28:36.294
In my Patreon community, I always ask them what would you ask this guest?

00:28:36.294 --> 00:28:39.240
So they get to put forth questions that I might ask.

00:28:39.240 --> 00:28:53.296
And Lisa wanted me to ask you what do you do or suggest, I guess, when you have breast cancer in your family and you shouldn't use hormone replacement therapy?

00:28:53.296 --> 00:29:01.112
So and I don't know if that's always true that you can't do it, but that's, I think, what she has been told, that she can't do it.

00:29:01.112 --> 00:29:03.236
So what would you maybe suggest?

00:29:03.758 --> 00:29:14.930
So, I would suggest she finds a new provider who will have an open conversation with her for the pros and cons, risks and benefits.

00:29:14.930 --> 00:29:23.564
There is no contraindication for someone with a family history of breast cancer to take hormone therapy.

00:29:23.564 --> 00:29:24.545
There's just not.

00:29:24.545 --> 00:29:38.604
The only contraindication around breast cancer is if you have an active estrogen or progesterone-sensitive or receptor-pos positive breast cancer.

00:29:38.604 --> 00:29:53.532
So if you have a ER positive or estrogen receptor positive or PR progesterone receptor positive breast cancer and it's active, yes, hormones are contraindicated.

00:29:53.532 --> 00:30:04.732
But if you just have a family history and if you just have a gene that's positive, it doesn't mean that you can't take hormones.

00:30:04.732 --> 00:30:06.657
We don't even know what you know.

00:30:06.657 --> 00:30:11.471
You have to know what type of breast cancer your family had.

00:30:11.471 --> 00:30:15.116
Was it even hormone receptor positive?

00:30:15.116 --> 00:30:21.044
We don't even know, and so there's so many nuances to answer that question.

00:30:21.044 --> 00:30:25.515
I just want to say it is not a yes or no question.

00:30:26.056 --> 00:30:29.763
Well, that's helpful and hopefully helpful for her as well.

00:30:29.763 --> 00:30:36.883
Just hypothetically, what about somebody who's in remission from a breast cancer, like that?

00:30:36.883 --> 00:30:41.513
Once they're in remission, is it still kind of a no-no, or maybe it changes.

00:30:42.055 --> 00:30:44.982
Yeah, so that's shared decision-making.

00:30:44.982 --> 00:30:58.999
I have breast cancer survivors that I prescribe hormone therapy to and you know it's going over what kind of cancer, what kind of breast cancer they have, what kind of treatment did they have?

00:30:58.999 --> 00:31:01.655
How far out are they, what are their symptoms?

00:31:01.655 --> 00:31:12.221
It's a really long history but no, it is not off the table and that is shared decision-making with somebody that can give you answers.

00:31:12.221 --> 00:31:19.462
And let's just put it out there that even if you have breast cancer, you can take vaginal estrogen.

00:31:19.462 --> 00:31:22.890
Even if you have breast cancer, you can take vaginal estrogen.

00:31:27.150 --> 00:31:29.193
Vaginal estrogen is FDA indicated for the genital urinary syndrome of menopause.

00:31:29.193 --> 00:31:33.703
It is a topical application of estrogen to the vaginal tissues, the vulva tissues.

00:31:33.703 --> 00:31:41.990
It does not absorb into the blood to a level that will change your estradiol levels if you use it appropriately.

00:31:41.990 --> 00:31:43.493
It's so low dose.

00:31:43.493 --> 00:32:00.599
And a lot of these women have been shot into menopause by their ovarian suppression, by their medication they're having to take, and so they can have really bad vaginal dryness, vaginal irritation, pain with sex.

00:32:00.599 --> 00:32:01.976
They can't even have sex.

00:32:01.976 --> 00:32:12.430
They might be, you know, losing control of their bladder, peeing all the time, urgent to go, might even not be able to have an orgasm anymore or get aroused.

00:32:12.430 --> 00:32:26.836
These are estrogen receptor tissues that need estrogen, and a lot of women are stripped of those hormones and don't know that there is a very safe option available.

00:32:26.836 --> 00:32:43.152
The American Urology Association just came out with clinical guidelines for GSM, and they mentioned in those guidelines that you know, women with a history of breast cancer can take this medication.

00:32:43.593 --> 00:32:45.576
And let's just go back for one second.

00:32:45.576 --> 00:32:59.085
I just want to mention one thing you know and a lot of women don't know this, so I'm going to point it out is that in that WHI study that came out in 2002 that said hormones are bad, well, there were two arms of that study.

00:32:59.085 --> 00:33:06.502
One arm was a group of women who didn't have a uterus and so they didn't have to take a progesterone, they only took estrogen.

00:33:06.502 --> 00:33:08.794
There was another arm of that study.

00:33:08.794 --> 00:33:19.179
The women had a uterus, so they had to take a progesterone with the estrogen to protect their uterus from endometrial hyperplasia.

00:33:19.179 --> 00:33:31.263
Well, the women that were in the arm with no uterus, that only took the estrogen, had a 23% decreased risk of breast cancer.

00:33:31.263 --> 00:33:40.903
And those women who did get breast cancer had a less chance of dying from it than the placebo group of women that didn't take the estrogen.

00:33:41.045 --> 00:33:58.778
Wow, so it was the arm of women that had the uterus that took a progestogen so a synthetic progestogen, progesterone that we don't use today and they think that that was what caused that slight increase.

00:33:58.778 --> 00:34:02.163
They think that that was what caused that slight increase.

00:34:02.163 --> 00:34:13.353
You know, instead of five people in 10,000, five women in 10,000 getting breast cancer, maybe eight people, eight women in 10,000 got breast cancer.

00:34:13.353 --> 00:34:14.275
So it was a very small increase.

00:34:14.275 --> 00:34:16.438
The absolute risk is very small.

00:34:16.438 --> 00:34:20.724
It's like 0.1% increased risk with this progestogen.

00:34:20.724 --> 00:34:31.896
So we know that the women that got estrogen only had a decreased risk of breast cancer and a lot of people don't talk about that and a lot of people don't know that.

00:34:32.217 --> 00:34:47.161
Yes, thank you for going back to that, certainly with regard to breast cancer, but also, I wondered about the vaginal estrogen, because you see it everywhere, everybody's talking about it and you don't know.

00:34:47.161 --> 00:34:48.262
Is it a real thing?

00:34:48.262 --> 00:34:49.690
Is it just a gimmick?

00:34:49.690 --> 00:34:50.753
Yeah, nope.

00:34:51.112 --> 00:34:54.215
But you need to get FDA approved.

00:34:54.215 --> 00:34:55.436
Estradiol it's cheap, it's easy.

00:34:55.436 --> 00:34:58.380
Estradiol it's cheap, it's easy.

00:34:58.380 --> 00:35:12.114
If you hate the cream, there's tablets, there's suppositories, there's all kinds of different estrogens that you can use in the vaginal area.

00:35:12.114 --> 00:35:15.304
You don't just have to use a cream, and there's also these little capsules that you can use of.

00:35:15.304 --> 00:35:26.038
It's called Intrarosa and basically it's DHEA, which is a precursor to estrogen and testosterone that does beautiful things to the?

00:35:26.038 --> 00:35:27.681
Um vaginal tissues.

00:35:27.681 --> 00:35:39.523
Wow, okay, so the you'll find a lot of people online, you know um marketing their compounded vaginal estrogen creams or estriol creams.

00:35:39.523 --> 00:35:47.018
All you need is a tube of like $13 estradiol that will treat your symptoms.

00:35:47.378 --> 00:35:49.784
Okay, Really really good to know.

00:35:50.110 --> 00:35:50.992
It is so safe.

00:35:50.992 --> 00:36:00.686
There is not one person, so there's a type of genital cancer that you don't give it to.

00:36:00.686 --> 00:36:07.184
But outside of that one rare type of genital cancer, there's nobody else I wouldn't give it to.

00:36:07.184 --> 00:36:16.090
If you've had a blood clot, if you have or had breast cancer, you know any other type of cancers.

00:36:16.090 --> 00:36:19.960
So it's very, very, very safe and highly recommended.

00:36:20.791 --> 00:36:22.835
Great information, excellent.

00:36:22.835 --> 00:36:45.440
Okay, I have this feeling we could talk about this all day, so I'm going to rein us in and before we, before I forget to do this, tell us where people can find you, because I know you have a virtual business, which means even if someone doesn't live right next door to you, they might be able to work with you.

00:36:45.789 --> 00:37:01.179
So my virtual practice is called Vida V-I-D-A, so it's Spanish for life, vida, women's Health, and you can find me at my website is wwwvidawomenshealthcom.

00:37:01.179 --> 00:37:09.717
My Instagram is at Vita, underscore women's health, or you can email me at Adrian at Vita women's health.

00:37:09.717 --> 00:37:16.012
So anyway, you know you can message me anywhere, but you can find me there.

00:37:16.432 --> 00:37:19.016
Perfect, and I'll have all that in the show notes for sure.

00:37:19.016 --> 00:37:25.224
And you mentioned, before the listing of doctors, menopause society, I think.

00:37:25.224 --> 00:37:27.670
Right, tell us what that is, let's mention that.

00:37:27.771 --> 00:37:28.032
Yes.

00:37:28.032 --> 00:37:54.318
So if you're having problems finding a clinician that is giving you what you think or know you need, versus you know what they're offering and you want to find a menopause specialist, the Menopause Society is the governing body for all recommendations, evidence-based medicine for clinicians treating perimenopause, menopause.

00:37:54.318 --> 00:37:56.742
So the Menopause Society.

00:37:56.742 --> 00:37:59.773
We get certified as a clinician.

00:37:59.773 --> 00:38:05.565
We take the test with the Menopause Society and become certified Menopause Society providers.

00:38:05.565 --> 00:38:11.778
So the beautiful thing is on their website they have a directory and you can go into their directory.

00:38:11.778 --> 00:38:16.362
So anybody that takes the test, passes the test, is listed on there.

00:38:16.362 --> 00:38:21.201
Now anybody who joins the Menopause Society can be listed on there too.

00:38:21.849 --> 00:38:24.335
So what's important is you go to the directory.

00:38:24.335 --> 00:38:39.885
You filter for your state, in-person, virtual, you know who you want to see, and then you find a clinician and make sure that they are MSCP Menopause or MSCP Menopause Society Certified Provider.

00:38:39.885 --> 00:38:52.221
They have those credentials because that means they've taken the test and they know the latest evidence-based recommendations for hormone therapy, non-hormone therapy, all kinds of information.

00:38:52.221 --> 00:38:58.539
Now, that doesn't mean that they are comfortable with breast cancer survivors, so that's a little bit more nuanced.

00:38:58.539 --> 00:39:08.452
But for just general menopause, perimenopause, finding a menopause society certified provider is very, very helpful, excellent, thank you.

00:39:08.713 --> 00:39:11.842
That's great, and I'll put that website in the show notes as well, for sure.

00:39:12.170 --> 00:39:19.835
Absolutely, and on their website they have a plethora of good information on these topics that you can read more about.

00:39:25.710 --> 00:39:27.889
Excellent, yeah, and clearly the theme is get educated for sure, because then we can advocate for ourselves.

00:39:27.889 --> 00:39:27.989
Yeah.

00:39:28.289 --> 00:39:29.753
Yeah, and you can even print out.

00:39:29.753 --> 00:39:36.235
You know the menopause society handouts or you know anything that's coming from the menopause society.

00:39:36.235 --> 00:39:45.251
A clinician should know and trust, so that's a good resource too for information to back up you know and advocate for yourself Perfect.

00:39:45.550 --> 00:39:47.695
Yeah, Okay, so I don't.

00:39:47.695 --> 00:39:49.298
I'm curious what you're gonna say.

00:39:49.298 --> 00:39:58.371
My last question is always this, because I think we all listen to podcast episodes and then we're like that's great information and then we forget.

00:39:58.371 --> 00:40:02.914
So, first of all, if you're listening, save this episode so you can go back to it.

00:40:02.914 --> 00:40:11.179
But second of all, what is the thing that you would say is the most important thing for somebody listening to?

00:40:11.219 --> 00:40:19.543
remember, menopause is inevitable, but suffering is not.

00:40:19.543 --> 00:40:22.525
Ooh, yes, I think I'll quote you on that.

00:40:22.525 --> 00:40:24.887
Yes, it's fantastic.

00:40:24.887 --> 00:40:29.692
There is always options for treatment.

00:40:29.692 --> 00:40:34.282
If you don't find what you need with one clinician, please get a second opinion.

00:40:34.282 --> 00:40:36.617
There are many options out there.

00:40:36.617 --> 00:40:39.639
Yes, your symptoms are real Perfect.

00:40:39.971 --> 00:40:41.215
Perfect way to wrap it up.

00:40:41.215 --> 00:40:50.835
And yes, the second opinion thing it's interesting how often we feel bad for doing that and we shouldn't so and you know medicine.

00:40:51.577 --> 00:40:53.342
You know we practice medicine.

00:40:53.342 --> 00:40:56.135
So just know that it is the practice of medicine.

00:40:56.135 --> 00:41:04.438
So the way one clinician practices is not the way another clinician practices, or this one might be specialized in this or that.

00:41:04.438 --> 00:41:10.461
So getting a second opinion is just finding maybe somebody else that resonates with you more of what you're seeking.

00:41:11.190 --> 00:41:12.014
Right, I like that.

00:41:12.014 --> 00:41:15.047
Yeah, well, adrienne, thank you so much for joining me.

00:41:15.047 --> 00:41:16.592
This has been a great conversation.

00:41:17.353 --> 00:41:18.076
You're welcome.

00:41:18.076 --> 00:41:20.001
I could talk for days on it, thank you.

00:41:20.001 --> 00:41:21.443
Thank you for having me.

00:41:21.768 --> 00:41:32.777
All right, you can watch my social media for that quote that she just said at the end of this episode yes, everybody's going to go through it and no, you don't have to suffer.

00:41:32.777 --> 00:42:07.762
I love, love, love that concept and you've heard me say this before in other episodes concept and and you've heard me say this before in other episodes sometimes we have some hidden stuff deep in that subconscious brain telling us that we do have to suffer or we don't deserve to just slide through easy and so just sit with that and think about whether, if someone said to you here's the solutions and they're very safe and you're going to feel amazing, Do you have any guilt about that.

00:42:07.762 --> 00:42:10.215
Is there any subconscious thing holding you back?

00:42:10.215 --> 00:42:24.233
That's where coaching comes in handy, of course, if there's stuff going on in there that we need to figure out, and I would love for you to benefit from the resources that Adrienne has given me.

00:42:24.233 --> 00:42:29.164
So head over to the Midlife Pivot Patreon.

00:42:29.164 --> 00:42:43.653
It's patreoncom slash mind your midlife, because you will be able to grab information on talking to your doctor, questions to ask, information on talking to your doctor questions to ask.

00:42:43.653 --> 00:42:49.996
Amazing, and Adrienne is going to come back with me in the future in Patreon and we're going to do a Q&A for any women who want to ask questions directly to her.

00:42:49.996 --> 00:42:54.152
And, of course, just reach out to her if you want to ask questions directly to her.

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I hope this was helpful.

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I know I learned quite a bit in this conversation.

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Adrian Thompson, PA-C is a nationally certified Physician Assistant, Certified Menopause Practitioner, and founder of Vida Women’s Health — a telemedicine practice dedicated to empowering women through perimenopause and beyond. With a unique blend of clinical expertise and personal experience, Adrian specializes in evidence-based menopause care, medical weight management, and midlife sexual health.

She is passionate about demystifying hormone therapy, educating women on their options, and helping them navigate midlife with clarity and confidence. Adrian holds advanced certifications in obesity medicine and lifestyle therapeutics, and is known for her compassionate, no-fluff approach to care. Through extended appointments and personalized treatment plans, she prioritizes listening to her patients — especially when they’ve felt dismissed or confused by past healthcare experiences.

When she’s not caring for patients, Adrian enjoys creating practical, myth-busting health resources to support women in advocating for themselves. Her mission is simple: to help women feel seen, supported, and empowered during a time of life that’s too often misunderstood.