July 30, 2024

Ep. 70: So Much Paper! How to End Paper Overwhelm and Get Organized with C.Lee Cawley

Ep. 70: So Much Paper! How to End Paper Overwhelm and Get Organized with C.Lee Cawley

Do you find yourself drowning in a sea of papers, from junk mail to important documents, and everything in between? You're not alone! In this episode of OMG Teach Me, Certified Professional Organizer C.Lee Cawley joins Cheryl to dive into the world of paper organization with tips, tricks, and a few laughs along the way.

We'll explore the astonishing fact that 100 million trees are cut down each year for junk mail, and why we're all still juggling between paper and digital. C.Lee shares heartwarming stories of how getting organized can lead to surprising and positive life changes. Plus, you'll learn about the innovative KARMA method of paper management that can help you tackle those piles of paper step by step.

Join us for a fun and engaging conversation that will leave you motivated to clear the clutter and make space for what truly matters. Tune in and let's conquer that paper overwhelm together! 🌟

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She had papers everywhere.

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Older woman, retired, single woman.

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And so her, these were the financial papers, and she was overwhelmed and she needed to gather up her financial information to take it to a financial advisor.

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What if there are things we never had the opportunity to learn?

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We've all been to school or training, but there are things they never taught us that actually make a powerful difference in life.

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I'm here to share with you all the pieces you've been missing: mindset, health, success, and more.

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And we'll all learn together from guests along the way.

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We may not have learned it the traditional way, but oh my goodness, let's keep learning how to do things differently.

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OMG, hello my friends.

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Here we are, and this is gonna be an interesting episode because speaking for myself, being organized when it comes to paper has always been an issue.

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In fact, my husband and I joke that we keep our house clean, it's neat, we don't have like stuff everywhere, we're kind of minimal except the paper.

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So it has been for 20-some years an issue for us, and maybe it's an issue for you.

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And in fact, as I'm recording this, I am looking across the room and seeing stacks of files from my mom's house for things I'm supposed to be doing for her.

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So I have with me Seely Collie, who is a certified professional organizer.

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There are fewer than 350 certified professional organizers worldwide.

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And she uses her advice and instruction to transform living spaces and personal lives of thousands of people.

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So that sounds amazing.

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Right now, her mission is bringing order to cluttered desks and overwhelmed minds with her signature course, The Paper Cleanse, and she'll mention that, I'm sure.

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And she lives near me, just outside of DC.

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And this is my favorite part, Seely considers herself indoorsy.

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Yes.

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We were just talking about that.

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Yes, indoorsy.

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I love it.

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Well, welcome.

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Well, thank you so much, Carl.

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I'm so excited to be here.

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And you know, this is one of my favorite topics because it is something that plagues us all.

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Or most.

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I I mean, truly, I'm not even making that up for this podcast episode at all.

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Paper has been always a thing.

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So we're gonna solve it, right?

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Yes.

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Well, let's start with your story to a certain extent.

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I always, my listeners know I always do this, but I always find that we create things in our lives to really solve our own problems or because they have meaning to us.

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So, how did you end up working as an organizer and then especially with this focus on dealing with paper?

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So I actually have a BFA in costume and set design.

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So this is not a natural path, but I realized that I wasn't a brilliant costume designer, but I could get things done on time and on budget.

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Why?

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Because I was organized.

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I went to we went and lived in England.

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Uh, my husband got his PhD and taught at Cambridge University, and I worked in a high-end retail boutique and we busted out sales numbers.

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Am I an amazing salesperson?

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No.

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I was organized, right?

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I could get the inventory done and focus on clients and do client follow-up.

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And so when we moved back to America and my daughter went to kindergarten, I was funny, like, wow, what should I do with my life?

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What should I be now that, you know, I don't want to be a stay-at-home mom, I want to do something.

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And I realized the things, the the one thread that had made me successful as a costume designer or a retail manager or a personal assistant was that I was organized.

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And I thought, wow, and this was just this was in 2003, right?

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So it was just when, you know, we lived near DC.

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I'd go to a dinner party with my husband, who's a lawyer, like every other person in DC, and I'd say, Oh, I'm an organizer.

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And they'd be like, Oh, for which labor union?

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Oh gosh.

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No, no, I do closets and pantries.

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Oh, and then the wives would be like, What do you do?

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Right?

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So it was just when you were starting to realize that this was actually could be an a way to live.

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And what I also realized is that it just it wasn't just that I was organized, it's that I could teach others how to be organized.

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And the real success was when I'd set, you know, I'd do the decluttering, set up a system, and people would be fine.

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Like they'd graduate and I wouldn't hear from them again.

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And then I knew that what I set up for them was super successful.

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So that's kind of how I came to do it.

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Plus, it was something I could do as my own business around my daughter's, you know, school hours.

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My husband was traveling crazy hours, so a real kind of full-time job wasn't really didn't make sense.

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So I could work between nine and three school hours, or you know, take the day off and go volunteer as a chaperone for the zoo.

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So it was a good flexible concept as well.

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And it served, it served me well.

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And that was when my daughter started kindergarten in 2003.

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And so yeah, over 20 years later.

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So I've got a lot of experience.

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Excellent, excellent.

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And what really stuck out to me there is this idea of being able to teach people to do it themselves.

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Because I mean, that's my first love is teaching.

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That's why we're here, honestly.

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And it's not something that everybody knows how to do.

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So kudos to you that you figured out how to do that.

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Yeah.

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Thank you.

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So, speaking of teaching people to get better at this, why do we even end up in this position where we're overwhelmed by paper?

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How does this happen?

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So, I I do believe, Cheryl, that there's a real divide.

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So I have a 26-year-old.

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She has a big job.

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She's director of product for a ed tech nonprofit.

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She doesn't even own a printer, right?

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She is a digital native.

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I am a digital dinosaur.

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And that I think is really, you know, I still love paper.

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Like I've got my notes here.

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I I it's a tangible thing, and that's how we grew up.

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Because we grew up before the digital age when if you needed information, you got out your almanac or your dictionary or thesources, right?

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It's so so that's kind of part of it.

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Also, there are 300 pieces of junk mail per year per person currently in America.

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100 million trees are cut down each year for junk mail.

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So even if you don't have a printer, if you receive mail, then you may may be inundated with it.

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And I do think that there that some of us just need we want to read a real book, we want to highlight our notes.

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We are, you know, we still like a real newspaper occasionally.

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So I think that the that's why we're still in this this kind of in between.

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All of us have one foot in paper still, and then one foot in digital.

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Yeah.

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And sometimes it's just like, where did I see that?

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Was it online?

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Was it, you know, it's like there's so much information coming at us.

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So that's why I think we still have a problem with paper.

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And you know what?

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It's a good point.

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If we even say just a problem with information coming at us, this I fully agree.

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This, I don't know where I saw that thing as a problem.

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Or I know she sent me the message, but where the heck was it?

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Instagram, Facebook message, text, email?

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I don't know.

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Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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It it it's just it used to be so much simpler.

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And that's why I think we're really feeling this overwhelm and overload.

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And and and it manifests itself like you you refer to your mom's papers, right?

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You may not have those files for home repair, but your mom does.

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So yes, and it's funny that as we were, well, not we, as I was sitting here getting ready for this episode, I really didn't even put that together, and that probably deserves a whole nother episode, to be honest.

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Helping our aging parents.

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Yes.

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But I went to her house and I brought home all these files because I need to work on her finances for her, and they're they're sitting there cluttering up my house.

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So, yeah, good point.

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That's a whole nother set of paper.

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And and truly, actually, it's funny that you should say that because one of the results that a a few of my students have had, one of my students exactly, she had papers everywhere.

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Older woman, retired, single woman.

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And so her, these were the financial papers.

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And she was overwhelmed and she she needed to like, well, she hadn't retired, she needed to gather up her financial information to take it to a financial advisor.

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So she had to organize the papers first.

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She didn't even know where to find the information because she was getting paper statements and things.

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And after she worked with me, she was able to do that.

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She took her her sheath of papers to her financial guy, and he's like, You can retire tomorrow and be absolutely.

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And it was because she had to get the papers together before she could go there, right?

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That was A to B.

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So I think it's wonderful that you're helping your mom in that way.

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Yeah, isn't that interesting that you might actually not only will your house be a bit neater and your brain maybe be a bit neater, but you might get some good news out of this.

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Absolutely, absolutely.

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Okay, so I know that those of us listening who have this paper issue are fully tracking what you're talking about, absolutely recognizing that we have piles and piles and it's hard to keep track of.

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Let's start with baby steps.

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If somebody wants to tackle this problem, is there a way that you could advise that we would even just get started with you know simple steps?

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Absolutely.

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So I have kind of some uh some intangible ideas, right?

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And and the first is that you know, good and done is better than perfect and none.

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And I see this over and over again.

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People don't get started because they don't, they want it to be perfect, and they don't even know what perfect looks like.

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So it's just better to avoid that, right?

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So one of the things I'm gonna say is, you know, it doesn't have to be A plus work.

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I really encourage B minus work.

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Yes.

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Because any pro you know, slow progress is still progress, and any progress is better than nothing.

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So that's kind of like the intangible.

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The other thing is you need to trust yourself, right?

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So Barbara Hemphill is a renowned organizer.

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She's trademarked the phrase clutter is nothing more than postponed decisions.

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And that's exactly what it is, right?

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Anything that's clutter, you haven't decided if you're keeping it, and if you're keeping it, where it goes.

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So until you're you can start making those decisions, but people don't trust themselves.

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They, oh, what if I need it?

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Oh, I you know, and so one of the things I encourage people to do is really trust themselves and and and in and ask themselves questions.

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Okay, so what if you threw that piece of paper away?

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Could you find that information someplace else?

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You know, is it going to be valid?

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Is it still, you know, those types of ideas?

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So trusting yourself, and of course, you know, you need to learn which questions to ask yourself, but trusting that you can make decisions.

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Recently I had a Q ⁇ A with my members, and I said to them, who had all gone through my course, is there any paper?

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Here we are a year later, because we had like a little graduation, that you throw away that you regret throwing throwing away.

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And of the dozen or more people on the Zoom call, not one of them could think of one piece of paper that they regretted throwing away.

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Wow.

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So, because they did it in a purposeful, logical way that they could trust the decisions they made.

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So then, tangible ways, right?

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Truly, if you want to do this, like clear your desk off, clean it completely, like get out the wet wipes.

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I can't tell you.

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Uh, you know, I had a student, she cleared her desk off, she did my method.

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She found not one pair of readers, but she found 10 pairs of readers.

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Very, she said she posted a picture of all 10 of them lined up, buried in the paper.

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And she's like, Well, no wonder I can't ever find any.

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If I find a pair, she just kept buying them at the dollar store, right?

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So, so clean your desk off completely.

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Give yourself a fresh start, give yourself space to work, right?

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Yeah, and create some type of collection container, someplace that you can collect those papers until you can deal with them, right?

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That's a hangout spot spot until they find a home.

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Get make sure you have a good chair, make sure you have good lighting, right?

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Without those things, it's so hard.

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You are gonna want to sit at your desk to sort and work because your chair is uncomfortable.

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And this kind of comes from COVID times.

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You know, people just had to like make it work, right?

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Yes.

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But then they realized when they were at their dining room table, they had a lot of space, they had a big window, they had good light, and maybe that was what they were lacking the whole time.

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So kind of those tangible things can really make a difference in you know, setting up your environment to be a uh to work for you instead of against you.

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That's a great point because otherwise I think we sort of maybe stick ourselves in a corner like it's a dungeon or something, right?

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Oh my gosh, Cheryl, I can't tell you how many people like, no, you need to find, even if it's just you use your kitchen table and you have a little rolling cart that holds everything so you can clear it off for dinner.

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If you're gonna, if if you want to be on the main level where there's light and warmth, don't send yourself to the basement because you won't be productive.

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So, so yeah, that's a that's a huge issue, absolutely.

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So those are just a couple of things, just to get yourself started.

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Give let yourself do B plus B minus work and give yourself a fresh start.

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Yeah, I'm glad you said B minus work because I am a huge, huge fan of that principle in general.

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We stop ourselves in life from doing so many things because we want to do it, and I'm a definitely an offender in this area.

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So we want to do it perfectly.

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So I'm glad you said that too.

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Absolutely.

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Well, let's take it further than baby steps then, because you have created a method that you call the karma method of paper management.

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So tell us a little bit about that.

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So earlier, like, well, how did you fall into specializing in paper?

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And I didn't.

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It's just that that was the need.

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I would go to everyone's homes and they're like, oh, can you do my pantry?

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Oh, and then my paper.

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I mean, it's especially in the early 2000s, before we we became much more digital.

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There was every single person, papers coming in from school, papers coming in from work, papers coming in from conferences, and so and then there's the paper you pay for, magazines and newspapers, right?

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And then your mom sends you something.

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And so, you know, I'd rather stay in a kitchen or a pantry because tangible items, you can get a lot more big results in a shorter time with tangible items.

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Paper can take forever because if you're doing it right, you really need to look at every piece of paper, right?

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You know, and that's a lot of mental effort and decision making.

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But I realized early on that I needed, I moved to America from England, and we lived in a fellow's flat, we didn't have a car, you know, I had national health insurance.

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I had very few papers.

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I came to America and oh my gosh, health insurance, buying a house, buying a car, you know, all you know, chimney sweeps, landscaping, babysitters.

00:16:52.480 --> 00:16:54.720
It was I I was inundated.

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I was inundated, and I thought, oh my gosh, I'm an organized person.

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This was before I even started my business, and I can't manage this.

00:17:01.919 --> 00:17:05.359
So I came up with a really easy system for myself.

00:17:05.359 --> 00:17:09.839
And then when I became an organizer, I realized, oh, well, let me tell you what I do.

00:17:09.839 --> 00:17:11.599
I don't know if it's gonna work for you.

00:17:11.599 --> 00:17:15.119
And person after person, where I was like, yeah, that worked, that really worked.

00:17:15.119 --> 00:17:27.359
So it's the karma of paper management, and it stands for K-A-R-M-A, and the first K is CRUD, and I know I spelled it incorrectly, but I had to for my acronym because I mean what's more important?

00:17:27.359 --> 00:17:29.440
Every organizer loves an acronym.

00:17:29.440 --> 00:17:34.640
So the CRUD is the first thing you need to make those decisions on what you're going to keep.

00:17:34.640 --> 00:17:38.000
The less you keep, the less you have to manage, right?

00:17:38.000 --> 00:17:45.759
So, really, that means there's really only four categories of paper, and all papers fall into one of these categories.

00:17:45.759 --> 00:17:52.960
They can move between categories, but it's A is action, action items or active projects.

00:17:52.960 --> 00:18:01.119
R is reference material, and some people think about that as filing, but I want you to think about it as what you would actually reference.

00:18:01.119 --> 00:18:05.680
M is memorabilia, paper-based memorabilia is huge.

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And the final A is archive.

00:18:07.839 --> 00:18:12.160
And those are kind of our like cover our ass kind of papers, right?

00:18:12.160 --> 00:18:28.799
And what kind of sets my system apart from other people, lots of people have action or you know, fat file act toss or things, is that I really acknowledge that the memorabilia is a huge part of our paper clutter.

00:18:28.799 --> 00:18:31.359
And people don't know what to do with it.

00:18:31.359 --> 00:18:36.960
And once they figure that out, because those are our heart-based paper papers, right?

00:18:36.960 --> 00:18:51.279
Like the letter to Santa that you want to hold on to, or kids' drawings, or for me, you know, when a uh student sends me a wonderful note telling me how I changed their life, those are heart-based papers, right?

00:18:51.279 --> 00:18:53.200
Those give us a lot of pleasure and joy.

00:18:53.200 --> 00:18:59.359
So, but we need to figure out what to do with them and not just pile them up and ignore them for months at a time.

00:18:59.359 --> 00:19:02.400
So that's what karma stands for.

00:19:02.400 --> 00:19:12.000
And it and like I said, it you know, it worked for my the clients I would go to in their own homes, and then now I'm teaching it as an online course.

00:19:12.000 --> 00:19:14.160
So it it kind of really found me.

00:19:14.160 --> 00:19:23.599
I didn't look for it, but it's been a really useful method that really simplifies things and resonates with with people so that they can do it themselves.

00:19:23.759 --> 00:19:24.240
Yes.

00:19:24.480 --> 00:19:26.000
You know, that's what's really powerful.

00:19:26.000 --> 00:19:30.640
You know, clients, students will be like, Oh my gosh, Steely, karma changed my life.

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You changed my life.

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I'm like, I never walked into your house.

00:19:34.480 --> 00:19:36.640
You live in South Africa.

00:19:36.640 --> 00:19:43.039
Like, you did that, you got rid of years of things.

00:19:43.039 --> 00:19:47.759
You did it so much so that your husband got inspired and he started getting rid of his things.

00:19:47.759 --> 00:19:49.279
That's all you.

00:19:49.279 --> 00:19:51.759
I just kind of showed you a path to get there.

00:19:51.759 --> 00:20:01.839
So, what's exciting about it is I think it's almost longer lasting when it all comes from from you versus like when I used to go into people's homes and do it for them.

00:20:01.839 --> 00:20:03.920
So, yeah, it's pretty amazing.

00:20:04.160 --> 00:20:05.119
That's a good point.

00:20:05.119 --> 00:20:11.759
And I'm I'm thinking of examples as you're saying this, like, okay, well, how do I know where this or that goes?

00:20:11.759 --> 00:20:20.160
But I think your system does feel straightforward because if I'm thinking to myself, well, do I need to keep a copy of this bill or whatever?

00:20:20.160 --> 00:20:23.599
Well, I probably don't need a record of that, and I probably could find it online.

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And so I'm I'm thinking, you know, maybe it is simple to think that through.

00:20:28.319 --> 00:20:29.039
Yeah, yeah.

00:20:29.039 --> 00:20:35.759
And once and once you kind of look at it from a big picture perspective, because really, why are we doing this?

00:20:35.759 --> 00:20:41.440
Yeah, we want to be more productive and we want to get our things done, but we don't want to waste much time.

00:20:41.440 --> 00:20:46.559
Like, once you get it figured out, students are like, I'm saving two hours a week.

00:20:46.559 --> 00:20:54.640
I just, you know, volunteered at my local animal shelter because I don't feel guilty that I should be at home getting organized, you know.

00:20:54.640 --> 00:21:05.599
And they're like, oh, not only did I join a book club, I invited them over to my house because my house can, you know, I can show people my house because I don't have piles of paper in the kitchen.

00:21:05.599 --> 00:21:08.160
I can actually do buffet, uh, the kitchen counter.

00:21:08.160 --> 00:21:16.480
You know, that kind of stuff is really, really telling because those are that's when the results really make a difference to our quality of life, right?

00:21:16.480 --> 00:21:19.920
Because absolutely, you know, sorting paper is not fun.

00:21:19.920 --> 00:21:23.599
I try to make it fun, but let's face it, people, right?

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This is, you know, this is not fun.

00:21:26.799 --> 00:21:30.319
But if you do the work, then you can get to the fun.

00:21:30.319 --> 00:21:32.000
So yes.

00:21:32.240 --> 00:21:42.160
And you know, I the other benefit that comes to mind, and this is why my husband and I always say, ah, paper, we're incapable, is when you want to find something that you need.

00:21:42.480 --> 00:21:42.799
Yeah.

00:21:42.799 --> 00:21:43.279
Yeah.

00:21:43.279 --> 00:21:52.880
That's that's all I mean, being organized is knowing what you have and where it is, whether it's paper or camping supplies or aspirin.

00:21:52.880 --> 00:21:57.920
You know, when you have a headache, you need to, you know, so that's really all organization is.

00:21:57.920 --> 00:22:02.559
So yeah, so so my method teaches you what the paper is and where it goes.

00:22:02.559 --> 00:22:08.559
And because you're setting up a system that works for you, a trusted system, right?

00:22:08.559 --> 00:22:16.000
Because you know, the example I always give, Cheryl, is you might call it auto, you might call it Volvo, you might call it wheels.

00:22:16.000 --> 00:22:17.440
I don't care what you call it.

00:22:17.440 --> 00:22:19.440
You just need to know what you call it, right?

00:22:19.440 --> 00:22:19.839
Yes.

00:22:19.839 --> 00:22:29.200
I had a when I was working with clients, I had this wonderful man, he was a bit of a curmudgeon, and I was working on setting up files for him.

00:22:29.200 --> 00:22:34.079
And I was like, okay, you know, at Action File, do you want me to, you know, do bills to pay?

00:22:34.079 --> 00:22:38.480
And he was like, no, I wanted to say, pay the bloody bastards.

00:22:38.480 --> 00:22:47.200
So I got my label maker out and I was like, pay the bloody bastards, and I put it there and I handed it to him, and he kind of chortled.

00:22:47.200 --> 00:22:50.240
And years later, I ran into him with a safe way.

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He's like, I think of you every time I pay the bloody bastard.

00:22:53.279 --> 00:22:59.039
You know, but he got his bills pay, right?

00:22:59.039 --> 00:23:03.359
So, so yeah, so that's hilarious.

00:23:03.519 --> 00:23:08.160
Yeah, as long as it makes sense to us and we can find something later.

00:23:08.160 --> 00:23:08.960
Yes.

00:23:08.960 --> 00:23:09.920
Yes.

00:23:09.920 --> 00:23:13.759
Now, let me just kind of follow this theme for a second.

00:23:13.759 --> 00:23:20.640
I I think another trap I fall into is to kind of throw everything into the holding container.

00:23:20.640 --> 00:23:25.200
You mentioned we need somewhere to put things, and then I call it aging the paper.

00:23:25.200 --> 00:23:26.799
I just let it sit there.

00:23:28.960 --> 00:23:32.000
And then sometimes it just times out all by itself, right?

00:23:32.000 --> 00:23:33.440
It does, yeah.

00:23:33.440 --> 00:23:34.799
It's a beautiful thing.

00:23:34.799 --> 00:23:42.960
And what's great about that, Cheryl, and I'm not opposed to that, is that then it never needed an action taken really, right?

00:23:42.960 --> 00:23:49.359
Because your mortgage is getting paid, like the things that are important are happening, right?

00:23:49.359 --> 00:23:51.519
If you have a leak, you've called the handyman.

00:23:51.519 --> 00:23:57.839
It's and you know, you you've but so those things probably never needed to happen at all.

00:23:57.839 --> 00:24:00.799
And same thing with I call it stewing.

00:24:00.799 --> 00:24:18.960
So especially with memorabilia, we create a stewing spot, and it, you know, when you first get your playbill from, you know, Kennedy's Center, and you finally got tickets to see Hamilton, and you're like, all of that, the ticket stubs, the playbill, the t-shirt, you know, it's all really important.

00:24:18.960 --> 00:24:24.720
But two years later, you're like, yeah, I've seen like eight more shows there, you know.

00:24:24.720 --> 00:24:31.599
So you don't have to hold on to everything because if everything's important, then nothing's important, right?

00:24:31.599 --> 00:24:37.839
So just as you know, we we we need to play favorites, I think, with everything but perhaps children.

00:24:37.839 --> 00:24:46.960
And maybe that's why I only had one child, because I do play favorites, but you know, I so so you need to decide what's really important and hold on to that.

00:24:46.960 --> 00:24:51.119
So I love that you've got that you that you let it age, like a fine one.

00:24:51.440 --> 00:24:53.359
Not on purpose, but it works.

00:24:53.359 --> 00:25:02.000
Well, and I think you just gave us permission to get rid of stuff that we thought we were supposed to keep.

00:25:02.000 --> 00:25:03.200
Is that fair to say?

00:25:03.519 --> 00:25:04.799
Yes, very much so.

00:25:04.799 --> 00:25:05.680
Very much so.

00:25:05.680 --> 00:25:16.640
Uh truly, one of the exercises in my class is I tell people like measure, measure how much you start with linear feet, or measure how much you get rid of.

00:25:16.640 --> 00:25:22.480
And so I had a student in Australia, he got rid of 250 pounds of paper.

00:25:22.480 --> 00:25:22.960
Wow.

00:25:22.960 --> 00:25:27.519
He was the first to hit raise his hand and say, there was not one thing I got rid of that I regret.

00:25:27.519 --> 00:25:27.920
Wow.

00:25:27.920 --> 00:25:38.240
So once you can see how much it, once you start making those decisions, exercising that decision-making muscle, you're like, why did I ever hold on to this in the first place?

00:25:38.240 --> 00:26:04.079
And you just, you know, and it re you feel empowered because that what you're left with, you you trust, you know you kept it because you purposely said, yes, I need to hold on to, you know, the example I use because I'm still very paper-based, is it's much easier for me to go to my medical records folder and pull out my most recent cholesterol printout, right?

00:26:04.079 --> 00:26:14.000
Than to go into the portal and you know, find my way there because I'm organized, but I know I saved it, I know where it is, and I know I can get my hands on it.

00:26:14.000 --> 00:26:18.720
And once you can trust that you've set up that system, you feel so empowered.

00:26:18.720 --> 00:26:22.079
So, yeah, it really helps you get rid of so much more.

00:26:22.079 --> 00:26:27.599
So my students get rid of between 30 and 50 percent of the paper they have on average.

00:26:27.599 --> 00:26:28.640
Amazing.

00:26:28.720 --> 00:26:28.880
Yeah.

00:26:29.039 --> 00:26:31.119
That feels empowering just to think about it.

00:26:31.119 --> 00:26:41.599
So we've brought it up a couple of times that some people are doing online, some people are doing paper, probably most of us have a mix.

00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:50.720
So, do you have any tips for listeners who mostly do their billing online and they don't have as much physical paper, but they kind of have one foot in each world?

00:26:50.960 --> 00:26:57.039
Yeah, no, so first of all, if it's already electronic, we don't need to print it out, right?

00:26:57.039 --> 00:27:02.559
If you're comfortable with getting electronic statements, amen, more power to you.

00:27:02.559 --> 00:27:04.480
You will you will have less paper.

00:27:04.480 --> 00:27:09.359
One of the things is looking at the paper you do have that might still be a problem.

00:27:09.359 --> 00:27:20.960
So so quite honestly, my course is probably not going to to age very well because people under the age of 40, 30, certainly, don't have a paper problem.

00:27:20.960 --> 00:27:25.759
You know, they don't get mail, they don't, they don't look at mail, you know.

00:27:25.759 --> 00:27:31.920
So, but for those of us over the age of a you know, people of a certain age, we still have a lot of paper.

00:27:31.920 --> 00:27:41.440
So if you have most of your, you know, if you can man manage to be comfortable with the electronics, then I would encourage you to switch over.

00:27:41.440 --> 00:27:42.400
I don't though.

00:27:42.400 --> 00:27:49.359
I still get my credit card bills and my financial statements in paper because when I get them in paper, I actually look at them.

00:27:49.359 --> 00:27:53.359
If you just send me a notice, I don't look at it.

00:27:53.359 --> 00:27:55.359
So you so you need to know yourself.

00:27:55.359 --> 00:27:55.759
Yes.

00:27:55.759 --> 00:28:12.799
But if if you're like many of my clients who would get the bank statement and never even open the envelope, then you maybe you need to go paperless and put a note in your calendar, in your digital calendar, you know, to check your statements quickly of the first of the month.

00:28:12.799 --> 00:28:14.400
Today was the 15th of the month.

00:28:14.400 --> 00:28:16.480
I pay my bills on the first and the 15th.

00:28:16.640 --> 00:28:16.960
Yeah.

00:28:17.119 --> 00:28:18.720
That's what my mother taught me.

00:28:18.720 --> 00:28:24.000
But I don't write, you know, bill paid like my mom used to do, electric.

00:28:24.000 --> 00:28:24.400
Right.

00:28:24.400 --> 00:28:27.440
Because how often the bills got paid?

00:28:27.440 --> 00:28:29.440
I mean, they'll let me know if I didn't pay it.

00:28:29.440 --> 00:28:32.640
And even if I wrote it on that piece of paper, I'll have to pay it again.

00:28:32.640 --> 00:28:37.119
If the checkout lost the mail or whatever, I mean, I do most of my banking online as well.

00:28:37.119 --> 00:28:41.279
Bill paying, because I don't trust the mail, but I still get paper statements.

00:28:41.279 --> 00:28:45.119
So, so I think that try to keep as much as as you can.

00:28:45.119 --> 00:28:54.240
And then what I often also do is encourage people to mirror their paper reference system to their digital reference system.

00:28:54.240 --> 00:28:55.680
Right?

00:28:55.680 --> 00:29:12.480
So if you have, say, uh medical records, and I've got mine, my husband's, and then I have, I think, dental envision, then maybe in your digital files, mirror that so that they so that you can trust.

00:29:12.480 --> 00:29:14.160
So you don't have to come up with two systems.

00:29:14.160 --> 00:29:18.400
Your system is the same, whether it's physical paper or electronic.

00:29:18.720 --> 00:29:28.559
That's a really, really good point, because someone who lives in my house who's not me is really bad about keeping track of email.

00:29:28.559 --> 00:29:35.359
And so we need to have a similar system, folders or whatever, and to make it match, of course.

00:29:35.359 --> 00:29:36.720
Yeah, yeah, absolutely.

00:29:37.039 --> 00:29:46.000
And that way everyone knows, you know, generally in a f in the household, one person is kind of responsible for the physical paper and the reference folders, right?

00:29:46.000 --> 00:29:46.240
Right.

00:29:46.240 --> 00:29:57.039
But as long as the other person knows, you know, that oh, you know, Seeley put it under Volvo, not automobile, because it's gonna take you, if you're looking under auto, it's gonna take you a long time to get to Volvo.

00:29:57.039 --> 00:30:03.759
Um so you know, so so making sure that people People realize how you think and what your concept is.

00:30:03.759 --> 00:30:08.400
But mirroring the mirror, uh, the digital and the analog really can help be helpful.

00:30:08.400 --> 00:30:09.599
That's a great point.

00:30:09.599 --> 00:30:12.000
Yes, I think that's gonna help people for sure.

00:30:12.240 --> 00:30:21.200
Okay, so you mentioned it a little bit ago, but tell us about the paper cleanse and what you have coming up.

00:30:21.200 --> 00:30:22.240
Absolutely.

00:30:22.240 --> 00:30:24.240
Yeah, how people can connect with you.

00:30:24.559 --> 00:30:38.640
So the paper cleanse is really it's a step-by-step system to take, you know, the frustrating files and the pesky piles and turn them into really a lifetime of paper organization.

00:30:38.640 --> 00:30:44.960
So once you set up the system, it it really is easy to maintain because you've created it.

00:30:44.960 --> 00:30:53.599
It's a system, it's not what I tell you to do, it's what you have decided to do because you've made all the decisions all the way along the way, right?

00:30:53.599 --> 00:30:55.839
But I'm gonna tell you exactly what to do.

00:30:55.839 --> 00:31:00.160
Like I say to my students, if you do what I tell you to do, it's gonna be great.

00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:01.839
You but you have to do it, right?

00:31:01.839 --> 00:31:28.160
So setting aside the time, so uh the paper cleanse is uh is this course, and then I do so you can do a self-study, but I do have a supported study so that people kind of have the ability to ask me questions, ask other people who have gone through the the course, we have a community, and you know there's lots of other bonuses, but yeah, that is what the paper cleanse is, and it taught it to hundreds of students now on five continents and counting.

00:31:28.160 --> 00:31:34.000
So if you know anybody in Antarctica or Asia, we're gonna hit seven.

00:31:34.000 --> 00:31:36.400
Those are the two continents I'm missing.

00:31:36.400 --> 00:31:41.920
So um, yeah, so it's uh you can find me at clecay.com.

00:31:41.920 --> 00:31:46.799
That's c le c a w le dot com.

00:31:46.799 --> 00:31:50.880
And there's always the information about when I'll be launching that next.

00:31:51.279 --> 00:31:51.920
Perfect.

00:31:51.920 --> 00:31:52.880
I love it.

00:31:52.880 --> 00:32:04.880
And it's really a cool concept that someone can go online and learn from you and really change something pretty major in their own home wherever they happen to be.

00:32:04.880 --> 00:32:06.000
I love that.

00:32:06.319 --> 00:32:12.559
Yeah, it's you know, it's a like most of my students are are older because they're paper-based people.

00:32:12.559 --> 00:32:18.880
And I'm like, if you can get on a Zoom call, you can follow my course because it's it's really simple.

00:32:18.880 --> 00:32:32.720
And it's you know, series of videos and workbooks that you can print out because we all like our paper, and but it just guides you to exactly how to make the decisions so to to identify what the paper is, right?

00:32:32.720 --> 00:32:36.559
And then where it goes so that you can find it when you're looking for it.

00:32:36.559 --> 00:32:37.599
I love it.

00:32:37.599 --> 00:32:44.640
But everybody seems to find that they can get rid of a whole lot more, and it's also about prioritization, right?

00:32:44.640 --> 00:32:56.400
This whole concept of what we must do and what we want to do, and finding time to make sure the must-dos get done, you know, setting up that system leaves us time for the want-to-do's.

00:32:56.799 --> 00:32:59.680
Love it, yeah, love it, yes, absolutely.

00:32:59.680 --> 00:33:03.279
We don't want to be spending time on something that is not.

00:33:03.279 --> 00:33:05.599
How does I think it's Stephen Covey put it?

00:33:05.599 --> 00:33:07.519
It's important and urgent.

00:33:07.519 --> 00:33:08.240
That's what it is.

00:33:08.559 --> 00:33:08.880
Right.

00:33:09.119 --> 00:33:12.480
If something's not urgent and it's not important, why are we spending time on it?

00:33:12.640 --> 00:33:12.880
Yeah.

00:33:12.880 --> 00:33:14.559
Exactly, exactly.

00:33:14.559 --> 00:33:19.680
Because there are so much of life that we want to the things that we really do want to spend time with, right?

00:33:19.680 --> 00:33:28.240
And I think especially so many of my students are older people and they have far fewer years left than they've had.

00:33:28.240 --> 00:33:35.440
So, do you really want to be spending your golden years stuck in your office looking at that paper?

00:33:35.440 --> 00:33:36.079
No.

00:33:36.079 --> 00:33:37.759
No, right?

00:33:37.759 --> 00:33:40.000
So let's let's figure it out.

00:33:40.000 --> 00:33:43.759
You know, people like, oh, you know, when's the next time you're teaching it?

00:33:43.759 --> 00:33:46.000
I'm not, I'm like, figure it out now.

00:33:46.000 --> 00:33:51.759
Don't put it off, especially figure out now, even if it's just for the next generation.

00:33:51.759 --> 00:34:09.760
Yeah, you don't want to leave your children with these piles of paper that they have no idea that they're gonna feel responsible to go through because they don't know if like dad was writing the great American novel and all they're gonna find is electric bills from the 1900s, you know.

00:34:11.039 --> 00:34:13.119
So yes, that is what they're gonna find.

00:34:13.119 --> 00:34:17.440
I can attest to that, yes.

00:34:17.440 --> 00:34:19.760
Well, thank you for that.

00:34:19.760 --> 00:34:24.639
I think uh I'll make sure that the the links that you mentioned are in the show notes.

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Make sure that you connect with Seely or come back, make sure you're following my social media.

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We'll let you know when the next paper cleanse is starting so that you can grab that if you want it or at least have a look and find out more.

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I think that maybe it's something I might need as well.

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So, the question I ask everyone is what I want to ask you before I forget to do that, and that is every week I add a song to the nostalgia playlist on Spotify and Amazon music.

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So tell us a song that has good memories attached to it or just gives you that nice feeling of nostalgia when you hear it.

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So when I read this, it's so funny because, and I'm not even a Gun N' Roses fan, but Sweet Child of Mind, do you know that song?

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Like me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me.

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That guitar riff at the beginning, it's so distinctive.

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And that song came out in 1987 when I was living in New York City with my two, still my two closest friends, Ramona and Lisa.

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So Mona Lisa and me, it was a brunette, a redhead, and a blonde, and we owned New York, and uh 1988 Halloween, Lisa the Redhead dressed as Axel Rose with the bandana and the fake tattoos, and we had like a boom box playing Sweet Child of Mine, and Ramona met her husband to be, who she's still married to that day.

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So that song, and then it's so funny because again, I'm not a big fan.

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I like British music.

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That song is you know part of the lexicon.

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So I give birth, I'm in England, my baby learning how to breastfeed.

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She's a day old, listening to Radio 4, and they're like, we've got a flashback.

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And it was sweet child of mine, and here I am holding my blue-eyed sweet child, right?

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And then I have to just tell you this just last month, we were in Budapest, and we were at this wonderful outdoor fountain on Margaret's Island, kind of watching the fountain play, and they had lights and the sun was coming down, and then out of nowhere on giant loudspeakers is that guitar riff from Sweet Child of Mine, and it was this huge fountain and light and music show that we just happened upon.

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So now this silly Axl Rose song has like three special meanings for me.

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Isn't that hysterical?

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That is amazing.

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And I I love those fountain shows.

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I have seen one in Vegas and seen one in Dubai as well.

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But why would they choose that song?

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What are the chances?

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I don't know, but it was the very first song, and it just came out and like I think other people knew it was happening.

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We didn't, and it was kind of like quiet, and then all of a sudden, these giant loudspeakers with that guitar riff.

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And and we were just we had just happened upon it, so it was kind of magical in that sense.

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So, anyway, that's what you're gonna have to add to your Spotify.

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I love it, and this is why I love it.

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Well, this whole thing came about because music is so powerful for mood and and everything.

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And so I started asking about songs, but this year it's always been nostalgia, and they're greatest people have the greatest stories.

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You've had a great story, so I enjoy it every single time.

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Thank you for asking.

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Well, Seely, I know people are going to leave with some practical things they can start doing right now.

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And in fact, rewind, go listen to those tips that she gave us to get started with because I do think you can go ahead and get started.

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I'm gonna do some of them.

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It's sitting there waiting for me in a pile.

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And now more resources potentially as well to look forward to.

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So thank you so much.

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Oh my gosh, it's been such a pleasure, Cheryl.

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Thank you.

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Absolutely.

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