Mindset In Midlife Episodes

One of the biggest challenges we face in our 40s and 50s is knowing what feels right—and letting go of what doesn’t. In this episode, Cheryl breaks down the idea of “resonance”—why it matters, why it’s not woo-woo, and how it can guide your decisions about work, relationships, habits, and life in general.

You’ll learn how to recognize when something no longer fits, how your body and brain signal alignment or dissonance, and what steps you can take to move toward a life that truly resonates with...

When was the last time you pushed a button just to see what happens? In this episode, Cheryl shares a funny (and surprisingly insightful) story about her Ring camera — and how it led to a big realization about curiosity, confidence, and trying new things in midlife.


If you’ve ever hesitated to try something because you weren’t sure how it would go — whether that’s a new app, a hobby, or even a career change — this one’s for you. Learn why experimenting, exploring, and “trying all the things” ...

Episode 49: Ever catch yourself scrolling through social media and suddenly feel… less than? You’re not alone. In this episode of Mind Your Midlife, we dig into why so many women over 40 and 50 fall into the comparison trap and how to break free so you can feel more joy, confidence, and fulfillment in your own life.

This is your official permission slip to stop following the accounts that make you feel down or bad.

I share what’s really happening in your brain when you compare yourself to othe...

(Episode 48) Ever find yourself asking, “Is this really it?” You’re not alone—and you’re not stuck. In this empowering episode of Mind Your Midlife, Cheryl Fischer sits down with Dr. Wendy O’Connor, a Stanford-trained positive psychologist and success coach, to talk about what it truly means to thrive as women over 40. We dig into the difference between success and happiness, how to stop living by everyone else’s “shoulds,” and why giving yourself permission to thrive may be the most importan...

You’ve probably heard that laughter is the best medicine, and science agrees. But did you know that being funny isn’t something you’re either born with or not? My guest today, Lynn Harris, founder of Gold Comedy, is here to show us that everyone can learn to tap into humor—yes, even you.

In this episode, Lynn shares how comedy is not only a tool for entertainment but also for empowerment, especially for women over 40 and 50 navigating midlife changes. We talk about why women are often condition...

Ever asked yourself, why do I feel guilty taking time for myself? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to carry that belief anymore. In this episode of Mind Your Midlife, I’m sharing the powerful practice of EFT tapping and guiding you through a step-by-step session designed to help midlife women release stress, embrace self care, and shift limiting beliefs.

We’ll explore what tapping actually is, how and why it works on both your emotions and your nervous system, and how women over 40 can use i...

If you’re in your 40s, 50s, or 60s, you’ve probably had this moment: You should feel confident by now… but you find yourself staring at a decision, second-guessing every move, and wondering why it feels so hard to just choose.

In this episode, I’m sharing:

Why so many midlife women struggle to make decisions (it’s not just you!)

The surprising ways overthinking keeps us stuck

A personal turning point that taught me the value of support

How to stop waiting for “perfect clarity” before you ac...

Ever asked yourself, Is this all there is? You’re not alone—and you’re not stuck. In this powerful episode of Mind Your Midlife, I talk with bestselling author Joan Perry about how women over 50 can stop dragging their flower cart through life and finally start blooming.

Joan breaks down The Heroine’s Journey, her life-changing framework that helps midlife women move through disruption, reconnect with their self-worth, and build the mindset and stability they need to live with confidence, joy, ...

What if the thing you're most afraid of isn’t actually the problem—but the story you’re telling yourself about it is? In this episode, I sit down with transformation coach Lisa Andria to talk about what happens in midlife when we’re craving change but feel stuck in fear, doubt, or the belief that we might mess everything up. Lisa shares her story of leaving the corporate world, healing from burnout, and building a life that aligns with her purpose—and she gives us the tools to do the same. We...

Ever feel stuck when someone asks what you really want? Like… how are you supposed to answer that with everything going on? If you’re a midlife woman navigating shifting priorities, menopause, and what can feel like a midlife crisis, you’re not alone—and it’s not too late to get clear.

In this episode, I’m sharing one of my favorite tools to help you stop spinning your wheels and start uncovering what actually lights you up. (Hint: It’s not another to-do list.) Whether you’re 40, 50, or somewhe...

Do you believe being hard on yourself keeps you motivated? That self-criticism somehow equals discipline? In this episode, we’re throwing that belief overboard. Because tough self-talk isn’t keeping you on track… it’s dragging you down.

Join me as I walk through how negative self-talk acts like rocks in a wagon or cannonballs in your boat, and what to do instead. You’ll learn how to swap self-criticism for compassion, so you can create more confidence, energy, and clarity—especially in midlife....

💰 Think you just need a better budget? Think again. Your subconscious beliefs about money might be the real reason you feel stuck financially—and in this episode, we’re digging deep into what’s going on beneath the surface.

From old sayings like “money doesn’t grow on trees” to stories we’ve picked up in childhood or passed down through generations, we all have hidden thoughts that shape our relationship with money. Cheryl shares her own journey of transforming her money mindset, along with cli...

Ever wonder if what you wear at home really makes a difference? Imagine if your outfit—even your soft pants—could shape your mindset, productivity, and confidence for the entire day.

In this episode, I dive into the science and psychology behind what we wear and how it impacts the way we feel and function, especially in midlife. Whether you work from home, head into an office, or are somewhere in between, this conversation is about more than clothes—it’s about identity, intention, and how we wa...

Ever find yourself looking at an old photo or hearing a throwback song and suddenly you're smiling... then cringing? One minute it's nostalgia, and the next you're thinking, “Why did I do that?” Been there. In this episode, we're diving into what I like to call the “midlife memory seesaw”—that mental tipping point between warm, fuzzy memories and the sting of regret. I’m sharing some of my own stories (yes, including questionable 90s haircuts), along with brain science and practical tools tha...

Feeling isolated in midlife? Trying new hobbies might help—but your mindset determines whether these new pursuits become sources of joy or frustration.

Drawing from her personal experiences with golf, violin, and mahjong in her 50s, Cheryl shares powerful insights about embracing the beginner's journey when we're accustomed to being experts in other areas of life.

Lisa Alfano, of agelessadventures.life, joins Cheryl with her wisdom on sports and community in your 50s and beyond.

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Have you ever talked yourself out of something before you even tried? Maybe you thought, That business idea is too hard, They probably wouldn’t want to be friends, or I won’t get that job, so why bother applying?
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. In this episode, Cheryl dives into the psychology behind self-rejection—why we shut down possibilities before they even have a chance to unfold. Whether it’s a career move, a relationship, or simply putting yourself out there, you’ll learn how ...

Do you ever feel like your social circle has shrunk in midlife? Maybe your kids are grown, your routines have changed, or friendships that once felt effortless now take more work. Midlife loneliness and isolation are more common than you think—but the good news is, you can rebuild connections and create meaningful friendships, no matter your age.

In this episode, Cheryl breaks down why isolation happens in midlife and how to overcome it. If you've ever wondered how to build friendships after 40...

Have you ever been in the middle of an important conversation, only to feel like the other person wasn't really listening? Maybe they didn’t nod, make eye contact, or react the way you expected. But what if they actually were listening—just in a way you didn’t recognize?

In this eye-opening episode, Cheryl explores the four main listening styles and how understanding them can transform your communication, reduce frustration, and help you navigate relationships with more ease.

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“Money doesn’t grow on trees.” “Only greedy people get rich.” Have you ever stopped to think about the stories you tell yourself about money? The hidden beliefs we hold—often shaped by childhood experiences—can determine how we earn, save, and spend. In this powerful episode, Cheryl dives into the money mindset behind financial success, sharing real money stories from guests with vastly different experiences. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: How subconscious money beliefs ma...

Does success have to be stressful? Are you holding onto beliefs that make your goals feel harder than they need to be?

In this episode, Cheryl shares her personal journey of redefining success and explores the game-changing idea that achieving your goals doesn’t have to mean sacrificing balance, joy, or your well-being.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

Why so many midlife women associate success with stress—and how to break that cycle.

The hidden ways your core beliefs and ...

Have you ever caught yourself apologizing for no reason or thanking someone when it wasn’t really necessary? These common habits might be undermining your confidence more than you realize.

In this eye-opening episode, Cheryl explores why midlife women often overuse words like “sorry” and “thanks,” the hidden impact on our self-worth, and how to use these powerful words intentionally instead of reflexively.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

Why over-apologizing is often about ...

Do you live for the weekends, slogging through weekdays just to get to Friday? What if you could find joy and fun every single day—yes, even on a Monday?

In this uplifting episode, Cheryl explains how our brains are wired to see what we expect and how we can train them to find joy and glimmers of happiness every day. Say goodbye to the weekly roller coaster and start creating a life you love seven days a week.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

Why your brain naturally notices...

Ever wondered why your body feels so good after a deep belly laugh? What if that natural high could be part of your daily health routine?

Most of us have heard "laughter is the best medicine," but few know the science behind why.

In this joy-filled episode, certified laughter yoga teacher Cathy Nesbitt reveals how intentional laughter can help you manage stress and transform your physical and mental health – no jokes required!

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER:

Why laughter i...

Positive thinking sounds great, right? But what if it’s holding you back instead of helping you? In this thought-provoking episode, Cheryl dives into the misunderstood concept of toxic positivity. Learn the critical difference between staying optimistic and ignoring your emotions—and why honoring your feelings is the first step toward real growth and mindset mastery. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: What toxic positivity really is—and how to avoid it in yourself and w...